Dinner last night with friends got me thinking about my state of vegetarianism! The questioning almost got me thinking I was doing something wrong!!! Questions such as, now why then am I wearing leather shoes (so I explain that I had the leather shoes from before I became a vegetarian and that I am planning on getting rid of all my leather good eventually). Another question was whether or not I feed my children animals (which I answered so far yes, but I am making them conscious of thinking about becoming vegetarians too eventually). Other questions were why do I eat eggs? Do I eat dairy? Why don't I eat fish? Don't I know about the chain of hierarchy (or something to that stupid effect), etc. etc..
So silly. I didn't bother them about eating animals. I just don't want to eat animals. If they start to ask I am going to give them my opinion, which is basically I think it is ethically not correct to eat animals for many reasons.
Then I thought today, maybe those who eat animals are doing something wrong NOT ME!!! I mean, those who eat animals without a conscious thought of how they are killed and sold for eating. Does it ever cross the mind of animal eaters at meals about if it is fair or not that they are eating an animal that once lived? Or, is it really fair to raise animals in unnatural habitats, inject them with drugs for various reasons, then kill them and eat them?
Obviously, we don't have to eat animals to be healthy. There are plenty of healthy vegetarian meals that are even better for us than a meal with animals.
I say animals instead of meat because really that's what we are doing, eating animals. Why call it meat, or beef, veal, poultry, pork, venison, etc.? Is it so that there is no bad feelings about what is actually being eaten??
Anyway, I have not been a vegetarian for a long time, but I always wanted to be one. Now, mentally I feel very satisfied and at peace. I hope that people will eventually stop looking at me like I am sooo unusual for not eating animals, because to me it's only kind and fair not to eat them.
Sharing a similar experience: I don't drink alcoholic drinks and Iranians -- yes, Iranians who pride themselves in drinking alcohol -- keep asking me why? dis? dat? The ones who are "moadab," just look at me as if I am a "khol."
Funny thing is Americans I mingle with never act like this and never make me feel uncomfortable. They "get" it, because actually many Americans don't drink alcohol. It is normal for them.
Ignorance knows no limit.
Yes bavafa, exactly, you get it!
I've been a vegan for almost 2/3 of my life--since I was 12. I don't miss meat...actually have forgotten what it tastes like. Even the smell of meat being cooked makes me nauseous. I don't eat dairy either, with a minor exception, and that is once in a blue moon I may have a piece of pastry that has dairy products in it (such as a cheese Danish). And my bodily measurements are all within normal ranges for my sex/age/race. And I have undergradute and graduate degrees from an Ivy League school. So, nothing in my life has been compromised by being a vegan. If anything, being a vegan has added the value of concern for animals to my life, which is priceless.
Wow AO! Very nice...
I think dairy and eggs are ok if they are organic because usually that means the animals are in natural habbitats, eating what they are supposed to eat and are not injected with drugs. So, they are not really abused, I hope.
Now that I have become a vegetarian, it is amazing to me how you really don't need to eat animals!! Eating animals for taste to me is overrated and is so hard to escape in this society and world! But once you do escape it, it is amazing how conscious you become of the whole "meat" industry.
You are right about valuing animals more, I have become much more compassionate towards them--how can you NOT?
The smell of cows in particular being cooked makes me nauseous too now!!!
Thanks for the note...